Because our mind lives outwardly focused, in the pairs of opposites, we constantly judge the worth of people and things. Seeing differences is the basis of our endless judgment.
When we experience that the other is our Self, we finally see that there is no basis for judgment, for determining worth. They are God. They are not separate from us. They are not different from us.
Before we attain this experience, our only approach is to love. The outer life of others is of no concern really. The inner life of others is one with our Self. There are billions of people concerned with the waves upon the ocean. Our only concern is the still ocean. There are billions of judgments, billions of moments of worthlessness, billions of attempts to tear down, billions of people trying to fix the wrong and uphold the right.
Our love that we express will reveal and release the deepest worth, the truest worth within both us and others. It is quite simple. When we feel judgment, when we question worth, when we are righteous, it is the time to realize what our job is. Our job is to love. The love is powerful enough to reveal true worth, true Self, true purpose. When we love, that love will thrill the depths of love in all of creation.
Love is not the ultimate. Bliss is. Love arises out of the bliss of the Self. The Self is known in the supreme stillness of meditation. Even if that is one second of bliss, unrecognized, it is the most powerful force in existence. That second will reveal the true Self and from that absolute, bliss consciousness, we gain the ability to be grace.
Blessings,